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#PEDOPHILE👺 and CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE😖 – a Serious Threat & Terror to every Parent today#

The world is full of Good & Bad and Right & Wrong. Knowing the difference and behaving appropriately is Wisdom😊, but unfortunately, not all want to follow the Wisdom path but rather choose immorality to support & comfort their uncivil erratic blasphemous behavior.

Being a mommy to a toddler, my concern😓 for my childs safety keeps on rapidly increasing on infinite factor’s. My various gimmicks to protect my child is a continuous process. With news and social media flooded with PEDOPHILE’S and CHILD SEXUAL ABUSER my doubts, apprehension and worries are giving me constant distress & uneasiness😓.

An ADULT DESIRING a sexual contact with a prebuscent child especially under the age of 13 irrespective of the gender of the child and then deliberately ACTING upon it, is a PEDOPHILE. They are bloody PSYCHO’S😠 who not only need immediate “Clinical Treatment” but are also entitled to brutal and merciless punishment.
Disastrously😫 our country was not in very good terms when it came to giving punishments to these dreadful creatures but recently there has been a verdict for CAPITAL PUNISHMENT straight away for Pedophiles & Rapists(Conditions applied). Sighhhh🙄🙄
But the danger is not yet outsighted, these child abuser’s are in trillions & gazillions and innocent children are an easy prey to their filthy intentions and desires.
So as a parent or a guardian what do we do to protect our children from this horrendous people🤔.

1) BELIEVE YOUR CHILD👶- Don’t do that mistake of ignoring a child’s complaint in any form. If you, as a parent wouldn’t trust what they say, then who will. How much ever false or made up you think their stories are, be ALERT. That would definitely save a disaster.

2) AWARENESS & EXPLANATION – I know it’s practically impossible to explain🤔 a toddler about a Sexual act, forget about awareness then. Noooo you still would have to work your wits out🤨 to tell them that no one except their mom and dad are allowed to touch their sensitive parts(and that too only in specific situations like bathing & injury) , not even their siblings can touch them there. Tell them a STANGER touching them inappropriately is a Monster Alien👽 who would hurt them, abduct them & take them far away from their Mommy.
If they don’t remember a school assignment is OK but forgetting the above lesson will harm them & their Mommy too. This will at the least make the child a little CAUTIOUS.

3) NOT FALLING PREY TO THREATENING & BULLYING – Every child is innocent. You threaten them & they get flagerblasted, scared , depressed. And more if they are threatened for their parents, siblings or any near ones. Assure them that you are forever by their side😊 to believe them, protect them & LOVE ❤️ them no matter what.

4) GET REAL & PROACTIVE👍 PLEASE – For God’s sake, Your sake, for your Child’s😘 sake don’t ever think that such incidents would never occur with your child. Get REAL PLEASE, your child can be attacked by anyone, anytime & any where. So be PROACTIVE everyday & convince your child to ellaborately tell you about their day out specially when the child is out of your sight. And if you smell😶 the slightest of discomfort or danger, put on your running shoes and get into ACTION. Don’t delay and pleaseeeeee don’t PROCRASTINATE 😴.

5) BE AWARE OF CHILD & SAFETY LAWS – Yesss you will have to do that, study that, inspite of you finding it boring 😏 or tedious. Be aware of the current LAWS protecting a Child or a victim in Sexual Assault . This will EMPOWER you and make you more confident & vigilant.

6) SELF DEFENCE LESSONS👻 – Instead of getting into the educational system trap of competitiveness, of who scores more in the exams and sending your child to 4 different tutions, alter their timetable & send them to a TAEKWONDO🤺 class. Sounds funny ?? Get SERIOUS. At the least your child will be fit, active and will kick🤸 some asses how ineffective it may be, but still building up their CONFIDENCE😊. And yes tell your child never to be ashamed of creating a HAVOC if they find themselves in a defenceless situation. It will gather crowd and things may not go far & damaging.

7) BE READY TO KICK SOME ASS – Don’t you watch action movie guys ???. Gear up then. If need arises to protect your child, go get FIT, get some KARATE tips and kick the balls out of the offender😡.

Phewww😥 I Seriously am shit scared & shaking inside thinking about such stuff’s. Imagine a child going through it. It’s so Physically & Psychologically damaging😣 for them.
I conclude by saying that you as a Parent or if not even a Parent to anyone, if you know or come across such situation or any innocent child victim or any Terrified parents, be a HELP to them. Because you never know you could be GOD SENT😇 to them.

By Madhura ❤️❤️

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I wish the GODS come down….   ( I hope my poetry melts your heart !!!!

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Sad is the air, when you see the misery around
a blind eye given to the hungry beside
you walk through the path & ignore the sight
when a homeless needs,a roof to reside.

A little girl runs and begs on the road
her sparkly eyes, desires for more
a doll she wants to embrace & hold
alas, her foot bare & rags are her clothes.

The weak walks, with fear in his mind
his head down and tears in his eyes
slashed & diced, is his dignity & pride
a rich has kicked & pushed him aside.

Injustice prevailed and has won the fight
laughs at the poor, with a slyish smile
the greedy and the mean, stare & frown
cruelty has put, humanity down.

I wish the Gods come down, in a quick
lay their eyes on the needy & the weak
touch the wounds of the grieved & feels
I wish the Gods walk across to them and heals.

By Madhu

Pic Courtesy : Pinterest

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 Smile !!!! 
Life Requires it ………

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The world fathoms about love being the ultimate, purest & safest emotion gifted to mankind and as i started growing, my belief in this adage became more believable.
                          At times the belief in this notion was shaky but eventually it prevailed that Love outsmarts all sorts of enmities, cunningness & malices. Yes it does, & that’s the whole basis of mankind and humanity. Its the only source & hope for our survival.

 

Everything we do has a self interest, pleasing our heart to keep it happy. And we keep it happy when we have someone to share our happiness with us.
Its about choices in life, good, bad, worse. Life may not be fair with you most of the times but its absolutely worth it to live it to the fullest. Anything new enters our life only when we create space for it.

 

Polish & concise as ever… our mind craves to be loved, pampered & wanted.
To love someone is beautiful, to be loved back is amazing.

 

 ” And if you have good people in your life & you take care of them, You will have them forever “

 

Madhura
29th June-2012

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My Thought for the day is “U”…… [dedicated to all the Bloggers….].

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Dark Days….

How would you feel if ” you were the reason for someone to cry every night “.

I hurt someone close the other day, yes i did it deliberately. It was my way to vent out my anger caused by that person.  But actually it was just not worth it.  I felt miserable when i went to bed and i could imagine the afflict & the anguish felt by the other person too.

I have also envisaged that how much ever i try to make up for my insensitive act later, it will not suffice, because the injured person does not want to be compensated but rather wants to be healed because he has been hurt.

The worse thing in life would be “you” being the reason for someone’s tears. If you cannot be a reason for someone’s delight at the least don’t be the reason for their grief.

If you wound someone, you not only give them hurt but you also give along some dark days ….like moments of pain & sadness..

People hurt you, they will… sometimes consciously sometimes by little ignorance, but it really does no good to give it back to them in any form. Specially if they are your closed ones then its like uprooting a tree & then trying to plant it up again.

Everyone is fighting their own battle. When you think you are struggling with your bitterness, ego & anger, always know, there are many people in the world who are striving to find little hopes & happiness in small things to maKe their life little more bearable. So let go the petty concerns even if it leads to big disappointments. You loose nothing by doing so.

By getting disappointed you loose nothing but by loosing people you loose everything.

Letting go your ego & anger is far much better than letting go the person. People, relations & love are very precious. If you are incapable of nurturing them you better be prepared to live alone in despair.
Hurt can be suffered alone but you need to SHARE happiness to feel it completely.

 

No matter how sharp a grievance or how deep YOUR hurt is,

But YOU should NEVER be a reason for someone’s  DARK DAYS….

 

By Madhura

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